"Thankfully, I discovered Mehera Nori, owner and principal attorney at Pride Law PLLC, a queer, BIPOC-owned law firm, who ended up representing my partner in the process of drafting a prenup. She reminded us that we were valid in wanting one in the first place. Queering the prenup process meant that we could show how much we deeply cared for each other, even in conversations where we had to discuss what separation would look like.
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​As Nori explained, a prenup wasn't meant to protect one partner over another, and it didn't mean we loved each other any less. It was a way for both of us to protect assets that mattered to us. This countered the narrative that often came up in our initial research about prenups, which was typically catered to women, encouraging them to protect themselves from their future husbands."